Escaping the Chains of Conditioning: How Jesus’s Teachings Empower Personal Growth

Matthew 9:14-17

Religious Leaders ask Jesus about Fasting


KEY POINTS

  • The journey of spiritual and personal growth involves challenging one's preconceptions and biases, learning to see things in their true, uncolored form.

  • To learn and grow, one must first empty themselves of preconceived notions and biases.

  • One must unlearn old habits and beliefs, becoming empty to be filled with new wisdom and understanding.


I. Invocation: The Illusion of Knowing 
“You believe frighteningly stupid ideas about things you know extremely little about.” 

Let that slap your mind awake—because it needs to be said. 

You think you understand Jesus. You think you understand fasting. You even think you understand spirituality. But what you understand is the echo of what others regurgitated. You were handed an image of Christ, a sanitized religion, and rituals designed to pacify, not awaken. You didn’t choose your beliefs. They were installed in you like malware before you ever had the tools to discern truth from noise. 

This isn’t a devotional. This isn’t spiritual candy. This is demolition. 

Because you don’t need more inspiration. You need rupture. A break in the illusion. A system crash of the ego and its pathetic need to be “right.” You need a confrontation with the Real—so you can stop chasing God in the dark with broken lenses. 

We begin here: Matthew 9:14–17. Not as Sunday school material, but as encrypted code—a divine cipher. Jesus wasn’t answering a question about fasting. He was teaching the physics of transformation. The metaphysical architecture of becoming something new. Something divine. 

The old cannot hold the new. The conditioned self cannot house the Christ-mind. 

This isn’t about belief—it’s about becoming. And before you can become, everything you think you know must be burned. 

Emptiness is the requirement. Destruction is the path. 

Welcome to the threshold. 

II. The Setup: The Misuse of Fasting, Ritual, and Religion 
“Fasting without the Way is starvation. Meditation without Mastery is sedation.” 

Let’s tear off the mask. 

When John’s disciples asked Jesus why His followers didn’t fast, it wasn’t an honest question—it was a spiritual flex. In their minds, fasting equaled holiness. Discipline equaled righteousness. But Jesus didn’t just sidestep the question—He detonated it. He exposed the faulty architecture behind their so-called devotion. Not because fasting is worthless, but because fasting without Wisdom is self-inflicted emptiness. Ritual without alignment is rot. 

In Jesus’ time, fasting had been hijacked. What began as a deep, sacred act of drawing near to God had become theater. Pharisees fasted twice a week—not to become vessels of light, but to be seen, admired, and feared. It was spiritual vanity cloaked in tradition. A performance. A badge of piety that did nothing to transform the soul. 

Sound familiar? 

Modern spirituality has repackaged the same dysfunction. You fast to cleanse, but never confront. You chant affirmations with no foundation in truth. You burn sage and wear crystals like armor—but refuse to burn your pride. You talk about vibes and healing, yet flee from anything that demands effort, structure, or submission to real order. 

This is not spirituality. It’s escapism with a halo. 

Christ wasn’t rejecting fasting. He was resetting the frame. He was teaching that ritual must follow reality. First, you must be emptied of illusion. First, you must receive the Groom—the embodiment of divine instruction, presence, and Wisdom. Then you fast—not to earn God’s favor, but because you carry His Way inside you and now hunger only for alignment. 

Fasting isn’t a tool for display. It’s a tool for warfare. Not against calories or karma, but against the false self. And if you haven’t first learned from the Groom—if you haven’t sat at the feet of Christ and unlearned your entire constructed ego—then fasting isn’t faith. It’s starvation. 

Until the ritual becomes reality, it’s dead weight. Christ didn’t come to add more rituals. He came to replace performance with power. 

This is the beginning of Wisdom: do nothing to appear righteous, and everything to become transformed. 

III. The Core Insight: New Wine, Old Skins 
“The sinful you and the divine you can’t coexist in the same body.” 
“New wine is not just new information—it’s unstable glory.” 

Jesus didn’t waste metaphors. He spoke in parables not to obscure truth, but to encode it for the ones willing to unlearn before they learn. In Matthew 9:16–17, He drops two metaphors: patches on old cloth and new wine in old skins. These aren’t quaint word pictures—they are spiritual diagnostics. And they all point to one truth: you can’t become divine while clinging to who you were. 

The old garment is your conditioned self—stitched together from trauma, imitation, ego, and survival. It has tears—rips from every place where life exposed your falseness. And instead of discarding the garment, most people try to slap patches on it. A crystal here. A prayer there. A few rituals for flair. But Jesus says it clearly: a new patch only makes the tear worse. Because when pressure comes, the unintegrated truth will tear right through the costume. 

Then comes the new wine—volatile, expanding, fermenting power. It represents not soft theology, but raw, living truth. It is Christ’s Way—a force of transformation that doesn’t just change your thinking, but burns your entire operating system to ash. And this new wine cannot be poured into old wineskins—rigid, brittle mindsets and identities shaped by your old environment. They’ll explode. And that’s what most people experience when they try to insert divine truth into a mind still loyal to its lies. 

You want to live by the Code, but don’t want to lose your comfort. You want Christ’s glory but refuse to let your ego be crucified. You want divine wisdom, but still carry the voice of your broken upbringing like it’s sacred. 

You cannot patch the old. You must replace it. 

This is not spiritual improvement. This is a death ritual. Your former self must dissolve to make room for the unstable glory of divine transformation. You can’t pour the truth into a mind that thinks it already knows. You can’t carry Christ while dragging your past. 

Transformation isn’t decorative—it’s surgical. You want new wine? Be reborn as a new vessel. 

IV. The Death of the Conditioned Self 
“You were born a clone. The Demigod must be sculpted.” 
“A man can have anything, if he’s willing to sacrifice his mediocre self.” 

Let’s be honest—you weren’t born yourself. You were assembled. Constructed from trauma, mimicry, survival instincts, and the limitations of your environment. You absorbed the fears of your parents, the dysfunction of your community, the lies of a culture addicted to noise. Piece by piece, a false self was built—a personality designed to keep you safe, not make you sovereign. 

That version of you was useful once. But now it’s killing your potential. 

And here’s the truth you won’t hear from religious fluff or New Age escapism: You cannot improve the Conditioned Self. You must destroy it. 

Christ didn’t come to teach you how to behave better. He came to make you new. That doesn’t start with motivation. It starts with a grave. 

The ego you built to survive must be disassembled. The persona you perform must be dismantled. Your spiritual evolution begins at the moment you stop patching holes and start burning the whole garment. Why? Because you can’t serve two masters. You can’t be two people. You cannot be both loyal to your past and married to your divine future. 

This is why emptiness matters. 

Bruce Lee said it best: “The usefulness of a cup is in its emptiness.” That’s not poetry—it’s a principle. You cannot receive Wisdom if you’re already full of your own delusions. Emptiness isn’t weakness—it’s readiness. It’s the sacred vacancy that calls forth transformation. 

You keep wondering why change doesn’t stick. It’s because you’re trying to layer divinity onto dysfunction. You want to build a temple on a landfill. It doesn’t work. 

So here’s the tactical demand: Die to what no longer serves your highest self. Let the conditioned clone expire. Let the false you collapse under the weight of truth. 

Because the Demigod version of you cannot breathe in the same space as the clone. 

This is the sacred exchange. The initiation. The requirement of all who seek real power: Burn the lesser self. Sculpt the one worthy of the Code. 

V. The Groom Has Been Taken—Now What? 
“In His presence we feast. In His absence, we forge.” 

When Jesus said, “The groom will be taken from them, and then they will fast,” He wasn’t offering a calendar for tradition—He was giving a spiritual protocol. While He walked among them, His disciples feasted, because they were feeding directly from the Source—the living embodiment of God’s Wisdom. In His presence, there was no lack, no confusion, no need for ritual. They were consuming truth in its purest form. 

But now? Now the Groom is gone. The feast is over. And this is the time to fast—not in nostalgia, but in fire. 

Not fasting from food, but from illusion. 

You are no longer a spectator of Christ—you are the continuation of His instruction. This means your fasting must be deeper, more dangerous. It must be the abstinence of ego, the starvation of the false identity, the voluntary crucifixion of the lesser self. This is the kind of fasting that actually transforms. 

It’s time to fast from distraction. Fast from inherited dysfunction. Fast from the default setting you call a personality. Fast from weak interpretations of Jesus that keep you spiritually sedated instead of spiritually trained. 

This is the era of pressure, of forging, of internal war. We do not wait on God to move—we align with the Wisdom already given. The sacred text has been written. The Code has been revealed. Now we fast—not to earn favor, but to burn away everything that prevents us from embodying it. 

Fasting is no longer a religious event. It is a tactical strike against the parts of you that won’t survive elevation. 

The Groom has ascended. The table is cleared. The fire is lit. 
Now we fast. Now we forge. Now we rise. 

VI. Initiation: The Demigod Must Rise 
“Where you once hated demand and its expectations as a human, you have come to love them as a Demigod.” 
“You’re not being criticized by change—you’re being invited to transcend.” 

This is not a call to comfort. This is a call to initiation. 

You’ve stared at your chains long enough. Now you break them. Not with noise, but with design. Not with rebellion, but with rebirth. The journey from clone to sovereign isn’t poetic—it’s precise. This is The Demigod Code: not belief in fantasy, but alignment with divine architecture. 

Self-actualization is not peace. It’s war. It’s fire. It’s the daily death of the false so the true self can rise—not as a better version of who you were, but as a completely different being. A vessel of Wisdom. A carrier of the Code. A force of alignment. 

To rise, you must empty: 

  • Entitlement—the belief that greatness is owed. 

  • Laziness—the refusal to pursue with precision. 

  • Identity mimicry—the disease of blending in. 

  • Passive belief—faith without friction. 

And then, you must sculpt: 

  • Clarity—the eyes of the seer. 

  • Structure—the bones of order. 

  • Endurance—the lungs of the warrior. 

  • Alignment—the spine of the Way. 

  • Wisdom—the breath of Christ moving through you. 

This is your initiation. Not into religion. Not into rebellion. But into sovereignty—the divine authority to move through life as one who knows, builds, and executes with mastery. 

The Demigod does not rise by accident. He is forged. 

And that forging begins now. 

VII. Final Command: Empty or Die 
“You must die to who you were in order to become who you were designed to be. The life you want cannot fit inside the person you’ve been. Empty yourself—so the Way can fill you.” 

This is the threshold. No more reflection. No more theory. Choose. 

You’ve been handed the Code, the lens, the flame. You’ve seen the Truth for what it is: a scalpel, not a sedative. There is no version of your conditioned self that can carry the weight of glory you claim to want. That version must perish. 

This is not poetic death. This is execution—of your old thoughts, your inherited dysfunctions, your loyalties to mediocrity. The cost of ascension is self-extinction. 

You are not being asked to be better. You are being commanded to become new

Will you remain a clone? Safe, known, slowly dying in borrowed patterns? 

Or will you rise as a Demigod? Unshackled, unseduced, unstoppable—reborn in Christ's Way, forged by Wisdom, walking in Sovereignty? 

This is the creed: 
Burn the lie. 
Empty the cup. 
Embody the Way. 
Or die trying. 

This is the Code. 
Now live it.


I will instruct you in all these matters, but first you must put off your love of the lie, the false way of life followed by the children of this plane of existence, and be converted, changed so that you hate that which you have previously loved, and love that which you have previously hated. Then I will be able to show you all things, for there is nothing hidden which will not be manifested when you have put on the mind of Truth.
— Jesus
Emptiness is the starting point - In order to taste my cup of water you must first empty your cup. My friend, drop your preconceived ideas and be neutral. Do you know why this cup is useful? Because it is empty.
— Bruce Lee
It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows.
— Epictetus
To see a thing uncolored by one’s own personal preferences and desires is to see it in it’s own pristine simplicity.
— Bruce Lee